I have opinions.

I'm fat, forward, and brash.

I like to talk about my feelings and thoughts.

I believe people can change; they're not just very likely too.

I say what I think and I think for myself.

I do (and value) unconventional things.

Generally, I don't like to follow social rules.

I believe behavior is a choice, anyone can choose not to be a bitch or a bastard.

I don't like to argue or debate, but do like to have conversations.

Conversation means people sharing their worldview without expecting anyone to convert.

If someone is repeatedly mean to me, I won't be their friend anymore.

If we have a problem, you are guaranteed that I'll want to talk about it.

I believe relationships are a choice, friendship and family are not a given.

I'm a nice person because I care how I affect the people around me, not becasue I'm polite.

I believe in problem solving; that means talking, listening, validation, and compromise.

It's easy to hurt people without intent, so I don’t believe in hurting people intentionally.

I value my time alone, the same as I value time spent with people.

I believe in apologizing, and giving praise, and saying 'I love you.'

I believe hate, resentment, anger are valid places to visit, but not to live.

All of life is an exercise in problem solving.

Finally, I am who I am, despite what you want or think.

Getting to know people is like trying on new clothes. Sometimes the pieces just don’t fit. So I’m not offended if you want to try me on and find out I’m not the right size, but expect the same behavior from me. I’m open to getting to know anyone, but I there’s no guarantee in friendship.